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What are the top three most important things you've learned?

Posted on Apr 6th, 2007 by trey bien : he who is becoming trey bien
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for April 04, 2007:

1.  this, too, shall pass
2.  action leads emotion
3.  listen first
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Tagged with: QAR, lessons, experience

Write the obituary you'd like to receive.

Posted on Apr 3rd, 2007 by trey bien : he who is becoming trey bien
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for April 03, 2007:

i'd prefer not to have one.  i'm not going to be buried and don't want a funeral.  to quote dr. evil, "the details of my life are quite inconsequential...".  i want to be remembered fondly by those i've impacted, but see no need in a man-made edifice or flowery words to describe me to those who never met me.
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what matters?

Posted on Apr 3rd, 2007 by trey bien : he who is becoming trey bien
recently, i'm having trouble with this simple question.  i'm good with the big picture, those things outside of me, but the internal question is whats bugging me.  i'm in a year plus relationship and am coming to the realization that what drew me to it was simply running from the opposite in my previous relationship.  yin = comfortable companionship; yang = passionate emotion.  why the hell can't i get both?  am i "settling"?  the dreaded and feared "s" word.  how important are aligned life goals?  if the destination is important, then does the route matter?  confusion reigns.
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If you were the CEO of Wal-mart, what would you do?

Posted on Mar 31st, 2007 by trey bien : he who is becoming trey bien
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for March 31, 2007:

i'd hire folks much smarter than i to turn things around.  i'd start with the folks at http://walmartwatch.com/ .  i'm sure they'd have some great ideas on how we could better take care of our employees, communities we serve, and the world as a whole.
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What, in your view, makes life meaningful?

Posted on Mar 30th, 2007 by trey bien : he who is becoming trey bien
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for March 28, 2007:

relationships and interactions with others, the ability of help others and feel appreciated, the ability to express your opinion, being appreciative
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What would you do if you had $10 million in the bank?

Posted on Mar 30th, 2007 by trey bien : he who is becoming trey bien
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for March 29, 2007:

i would travel around the world on a "working vacation" trying to volunteer and help as i trotted the globe.  when i returned, i would relocate to the bay area and begin working on poverty-related issues primarily in africa.
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Tagged with: QAR, fortune, rich, wealth, freedom